It all leads to this moment
Considered. Curated. Quietly unforgettable.
As your celebrant, I don’t plan your wedding — I craft the moment it begins.
This is where it all becomes real: the hush before you speak, the way your story is told, the joy in every glance exchanged. My role is to hold space for that — to create and lead a ceremony that feels wholly yours. Rooted in meaning. Lifted by love. And delivered with calm, assured elegance.
I take the time to understand you — your tone, your values, your way of being — and I shape a ceremony that honours that with warmth, sincerity, and just the right amount of lightness. Nothing overdone. Nothing borrowed.
Just something that feels quietly right.
The First Connection
Every story begins with a conversation.
We’ll start with an informal online chat wherever you are in the world — to get a sense of your vision, your personalities, and what you’re dreaming of.I’ll ask the right questions, offer ideas if you’d like them, and make the process feel easy from the very start.
I regularly work under NDAs, should you require one — discretion is always a given.
2. Securing Your Date
I know too well what its like juggling diaries - so fingers crossed
If we feel aligned, I’ll invite you to secure your special date with a holding fee - processed securing online.
This guarantees yours will be the only ceremony I take that day. Naturally the holding fee is credited towards your final balance.
You will now have me as part your bespoke Wedding Team - and my ‘little black book’ is always open.
3. The Deep Dive
Uncovering the stories that bring your day to life
Once your date is confirmed, I’ll send over a thoughtfully designed questionnaire to uncover the finer details — your story, your style, and what truly matters.
It’s a relaxed, enjoyable process, and the starting point for creating something that feels like you both - before we meet face to face.
4. A Moment Together
Face to face, glass in hand, the story unfolds
If at all possible, I love to meet in person.
Whether it’s at Soho Farmhouse (just a few minutes from where I’m based), a favourite London hideaway, or somewhere that feels right for us both, this is where ideas begin to take shape and your ceremony comes into focus — with warmth, creativity, and perhaps a glass of something special (I’m partial to a Whiskey Sour).
For overseas couples, we’ll arrange to meet as soon as you arrive — a chance to reconnect, refine every detail, and ensure everything feels just right before the big day.
5. Designing Your Ceremony
Where we settle in, shape the details, and let it take shape — no rules, only what’s true to you.
Together, we’ll shape a ceremony that’s personal, poetic, and completely you.
Based on our discussions, I craft a personalised ceremony script that resonates with your love story. We will review it together to ensure it perfectly captures your vision.
This will take as many iterations as needed
“Tying the Knot”
Some couples I am commissioned by choose to weave in symbolic rituals — handfasting, the ancient tradition that gave us the phrase ‘tying the knot,’ a ring blessing, or the soft glow of a unity candle. Each carries a history, but each can also be reimagined to feel entirely yours.
I’ll share more about these rituals, their variations, and the ways they can be shaped to reflect your story — so together, we’ll find what resonates most with your ceremony.
I will advise on the format / structure / flow and add any flourishes depending on the venue – you as a couple and your wishes –
I’ll also liaise with your planner, photographer, florist, stylist, videographer, and venue — becoming part of your wedding “team” so the day flows seamlessly.
Unearthing the Words
Sometimes the right words already exist — timeless lines from Shakespeare, the quiet depth of Rilke, the romantic clarity of Saint-Exupéry, or the lyrical honesty of New York poet Mark Doty.
My role is to help you unearth them: readings that feel authentic to your story, curated with care. With a background in professional performance, I bring a natural presence to their delivery . — giving the words space to resonate and linger..
6. The Big Day
Every detail prepared. Every moment yours.
In the weeks before your wedding, we’ll be in close contact — refining every detail so nothing is left to chance.
On the day itself, I arrive early. As a former West End performer, timing is second nature to me — and being ahead of schedule means I can connect with your wedding team, oversee the flow, and make sure everything is exactly in place.
Before the ceremony begins, I’ll always take a moment with you. A calm, grounding presence to steady nerves and remind you that this is your time.
I roll up my sleeves, work seamlessly alongside your team, and handle the practicalities with ease. I’m used to the unexpected — and in fact, I welcome it. Years of experience at Royal occasions, Olympic Games, and high-profile celebrations mean I take it all in my stride, ensuring everything continues with quiet assurance.
Your ceremony will unfold with elegance, warmth, and ease — an experience that feels effortless for you and unforgettable for your guests.
Your only role is to be fully present, knowing you are in safe, experienced hands.
The Rehearsal
While your ceremony will feel effortless on the day, I always recommend a rehearsal ( if possible with your schedules) . It’s a chance to fine-tune the flow, settle timings, and give you and your wedding party the confidence of knowing exactly how it will unfold.
We’ll walk through the key moments together — entrances, positioning, pacing — so that when the day arrives, everything feels second nature. Practice makes perfect, and this gentle run-through helps ease nerves and ensure every detail is aligned.
A rehearsal is always included in my service. With prior arrangement, this can often be held at the venue the day before, depending on my availability and venue access. For locations requiring significant travel, accommodation arrangements can be discussed in advance.
Every couple receives a beautifully bound copy of their ceremony script after the day — a keepsake of the words that marked the beginning of your marriage.
7. The Next Step
Unapologetically you.
If this feels like the right fit, I’d love to hear from you. Your wedding ceremony should be as individual as you are — and together, we’ll create something unforgettable.
Because it’s never just about getting married. It’s about doing it in a way that feels intentional, authentic, and true to you.
Each ceremony I create is curated as an artisan piece — crafted entirely around your love story. Together we’ll gather the memories, moments, and details that define you, and shape them into something that feels both timeless and entirely your own. No clichés, no borrowed words — just something written with care, artistry, and heart.
Whether you dream of gliding down the aisle in timeless tradition or throwing the rule book away completely, my role is to ensure it feels elegant, effortless, and unmistakably yours.
It is always an honour for me to stand with you, in front of your friends and family, and marry you. That privilege is never lost on me.
My diary is often booked well in advance, so if this resonates, let’s secure your date and craft the kind of ceremony your guests will talk about for years — a moment so personal, so alive, it could only ever belong to you.
“For couples who value continuity into the evening, I also offer support as Master of Ceremonies — carrying your celebration seamlessly from ceremony to reception with the same familiar voice.””
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“Love does not consist in gazing at each other,
but in looking outward together in the same direction.”
— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry